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Let’s get one thing straight right off the bat: giving a woman multiple orgasms isn’t about showing off, proving your worth, or checking some macho accomplishment off a bucket list. It’s about connection, curiosity, and a willingness to fully explore the depth of her pleasure—which, by the way, will rock your world too.
I know what you’re thinking: “Annette, that sounds like a lot of pressure.” It’s not. This isn’t about precision timing or knowing secret cheat codes—it’s about creating an environment where she feels safe enough to surrender and turned on enough to go back for more.
Here’s the kicker: the key to multiples isn’t just technique. It’s how you show up.
If you want to experience or give your partner multiple orgasms, this article? It’s your starting point. I’m going to give you a taste of what’s possible, but for the juicy details, you’ll need to check out my podcast, OnlyFans, or my website talksexwithannette.com. That’s where I dive deep into the techniques, show you how it’s done (literally), and guide you step-by-step.
Now, let’s get into it.
The Art of Multiples: It Starts Before the Bedroom
Foreplay doesn’t start five minutes before you touch her. It starts with how you engage her mind and emotions long before things heat up.
Are you present when she talks about her day? Are you curious about her fantasies without judgment? Do you notice what turns her on outside of the bedroom—like how she lights up when you take charge in a certain way or how her body relaxes when you run your hands down her back just so?
A woman’s pleasure begins in her mind, and if you’re tuned in, you’ll see the signs she’s ready to let go.
Technique Is the Framework, Not the Star
Let’s talk about the obvious: yes, technique matters. But too many people treat sex like an instruction manual: if you press this, flick that, and apply pressure here, voilà! Multiples!
Nope.
Every woman’s body is different. What made her gasp last time might not work tonight. And that’s where curiosity comes in—being willing to ask, explore, and adjust in real-time. Pay attention to her breath, her body language, her moans, and the way she grips your hand or hips. Those cues are her body’s way of whispering, “Yes, right there.”
Pro tip: once she’s come once, slow down. Let her body reset, and then gradually build her back up. The second orgasm (and third, and fourth…) often comes faster than the first because her body is already primed.
The Two Types of Multiple Orgasms
Did you know there are two main types of multiple orgasms?
Rolling Orgasms: These feel like one continuous wave of pleasure. The first orgasm blends seamlessly into the next, with no clear “pause” in between. It’s all about keeping the stimulation going without fully stopping.
Distinct Orgasms: These feel like individual peaks with a brief break in arousal between each one. After the first orgasm, you’ll need to rebuild her arousal to bring her back to that edge.
Both are incredible, and every woman’s body responds differently. Your job? Pay attention to what her body is telling you and follow her lead.
What You Really Need to Know
Here’s the truth: giving a woman multiple orgasms isn’t just about technique—it’s about understanding her unique body and creating an experience where she feels completely free to let go. That said, there are a few tips that can make all the difference.
1. Stimulate Beyond the Clit.
The clitoris is amazing, but it’s not the only star of the show. If you’re not already familiar with the G-spot and A-spot, now’s the time to learn. These internal pleasure zones can lead to deeper, more intense orgasms—especially when combined with clitoral stimulation.
The best part? You don’t have to guess. I cover exactly how to find and stimulate these spots in my latest podcast episode and on my OF.
2. Sensitivity Is Normal.
After her first orgasm, her clit might feel too sensitive to touch. That doesn’t mean you’re done—it just means it’s time to switch gears.
This is where techniques like the cupping method come in handy (yes, I demonstrate this on OF). Or, you can shift your focus to internal stimulation or other erogenous zones, like her thighs, perineum, or nipples.
3. Rebuild Her Arousal.
Once her sensitivity fades, it’s all about teasing her back to that edge. This takes patience and attention to detail, but trust me, the payoff is worth it. Use your hands, mouth, or toys to explore what feels good for her, and take your time.
Why This Matters
Multiple orgasms aren’t just about physical pleasure—they’re about connection, trust, and creating an experience that leaves her feeling seen, desired, and completely fulfilled. When you focus on her pleasure and take the time to explore what her body needs, you’re not just becoming a better lover—you’re creating intimacy that goes way beyond the bedroom.
Want to learn more?
Check out my latest podcast episode, where I break down the steps in detail. And for guided demonstrations and tutorials, head over to my OF or my website: talksexwithannette.com. Whether you’re new to this or looking to level up, I’ve got you covered.
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