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Let’s be honest — when it comes to clit play, most men go straight for the bullseye. They zero in, laser-focused, like they're defusing a bomb. But here’s the thing: the magic often happens around the clit before you even touch it directly.
That's where The Broading Method comes in — a simple yet powerful touch technique designed to amplify pleasure and make her melt.
What Is the Broading Method?
Instead of going straight for the clit, you use a broad, gentle touch to stimulate her entire vulva. Flatten your fingers — think relaxed hand, not stiff fingers — and press the soft pads of your fingers across her entire vulva. Then, slowly move your hand in steady, circular motions, letting your fingers glide across her labia, hood, and yes — her clit — but without hyper-focusing on it.
This method feels less like “point-and-shoot” and more like “sensual surround sound.” It’s warm, full-bodied, and incredibly effective at building tension and arousal.
Why Does It Work?
Science backs this up! Studies show that the vulva and surrounding areas have a rich network of nerve endings that crave softer, broader touch before pinpoint stimulation. In fact, research from the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy found that women often report heightened pleasure and deeper orgasms when partners focus on external stimulation before diving into direct clitoral contact.
The Broading Method taps into this by activating more pleasure pathways, waking up her body, and setting the stage for mind-blowing orgasms.
Bonus Techniques to Take It Further
Want to step up your game even more? Once you’ve mastered Broading, try these moves:
Cupping — Gently cup her vulva with your entire palm, adding warmth and pressure.
Layering — Use a silky fabric or the palm of your hand to build indirect pressure before shifting to fingers.
The Figure 8 — Draw slow, figure-eight patterns across her clitoral area to tease and build her up.
Curious how these moves look in action? I’ve got you covered.
Watch the intro video now, and head over to my OnlyFans for the full tutorial — where I break down each technique step by step.
Your partner will thank you.
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